This is where you can tag in a sex toy-like a vibrating butt plug or prostate massager-and use it internally, externally or both until you’re ready to dive back in. If the mood feels right and you’re given consent, rub the head of your cock against the hole and give it a nice tease.Įating ass can put a lot of strain on your tongue and jaw and sometimes you need a break.
Lap it up like an ice cream cone using your entire tongue, then point and penetrate, getting in real deep. Flirt with speed, direction and pressure. “Swirl your tongue in circles, flick around with just the tip, go in deep, give him some good long licks right from the balls all the way up his ass crack.”īoth soften and flex your tongue, lick every little fold in the hole as these host the most nerve-endings. “Tongue that hole like you're making out with it,” Diggory says. The same routine gets boring real quick, so switch up your technique. If you’re rolling your eyes out of boredom while someone’s tongue-deep in your hole, they’re not doing it right. “Just relax and get comfortable, because I'm going to be down there for a while.”
“Some guys like a hole to be shower-fresh, others like a bit of sweat and musk,” he says.
When it comes to how clean the area should be, Diggory advises you talk it out with your sexual partner beforehand. While you don’t have to douche (the tongue won’t be penetrating more than half an inch deep but, to be fair, rimming can lead to deeper penetration), cleaning the area with an antibacterial soap or butt scrub will suffice. Generally speaking, it is wise to avoid rimming if your sexual partner is experiencing symptoms of a possible stomach bug as they may be more likely to transmit bad bacteria.īefore tongue hits hole, make sure your bum-as well any other areas that may be involved-is clean as a whistle about 30 to 60 minutes beforehand. Hepatitis A, herpes, HPV, and gonorrhea can all be transmitted via rimjobs––some through feces and others through skin-to-skin contact, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).īacterial infections, like e.coli, salmonella as well as giardia, a microscopic parasite, can be transmitted through rimming as well. So settle in students, it’s time for a lesson on rimjobs.Īs is true for just about any sexual activity that involves potentially mixing bodily fluids and intimate areas with one another, taking the proper precautions to ensure you’re both protected should be considered. Since rimming is an integral component of a queer man’s sexual repertoire, I figured some credibly-sourced tips on the matter wouldn’t hurt. “Just like all good foreplay, it's all about building anticipation of what's to come.” “Rimming is an essential part of getting my boys ready to get fucked, both physically and mentally,” he tells Grindr. “So by spending time helping a sexual partner relax into a sexual encounter through external stimulation of the anus, you can help them open and be better prepared for anal penetration.”įor adult performer Diggory, the proud owner of a nine-inch cock, sex can be difficult without it. “The more relaxed you are, the less tension you hold in your body, including your pelvic floor and anus,” Fraser explains. It can also help bottoms settle into a sexual experience. “Thus, stimulating the area between the genitals and the anus (the perineum), the anus itself, and even the area leading up to the tailbone, especially with a tongue, can all create fantastically pleasurable sensations.”īeyond feeling fucking fantastic, the taboo nature of the act can be incredibly arousing.
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“Anilingus feels so good because the anus is loaded with sensitive nerve endings, such as pacinian corpuscles, which respond to vibration and pressure, as well as free nerve endings which respond to temperature and touch,” Cam Fraser, Australia’s leading men’s sex coach, tells Grindr.
Nothing else matters except the tongue tickling, teasing and penetrating my hole. When perched on someone’s face, I’m a king on his throne. I have a confession to make: there is nothing I enjoy more on this planet than a rim job.